Well I don't refuse to NEVER ask out a girl ever again... but for a pretty long while. This probably isn't the place to vent, but I haven't posted for awhile. And why not? How many people ACTUALLY read this. But anyways.
Recently I've heard time after time after time from females how stupid it is that guys never ask out anymore. Now hearing this kinda took me by surprise at first... personally I feel I go out on a good amount of dates and lots of my buddies do as well. I mean, if we're not hanging out with the fellas then we're probably on dates.
Well recently I've been interested in a few different girls and decided this Fall Break would be a great time to catch up and ask out those who I've been meaning to take out. Well I'll have you know that I have tried everything and to no avail have the girls accepted my invitation. Normally you would call a girl around Monday to Wednesday to reserve her for the weekend right? Well after a few attempts I decided to maybe ask a day or two before. That didn't work either.
Now I'll have you know, the reason why I haven't had the chance to take these girls out are because they had "things going on" the week or two before. After how many times asking a girl out and her finding "excuses" for both weekend nights does a guy give up so she doesn't think he's a) desperate or b) stalkerish? I mean, I thought I had a good handle on feeling if a girl was giving me excuses or just was honestly busy... But now I'm completely lost.
Thus I come to the conclusion... either a) I am not dating material and girls throw up at the thought of a guy like me taking them out for a night... or b) girls just don't want to go on dates as much as they say they do. (Don't even try option c. I know the girls just honestly don't have something already planned. haha)
In either case, I refuse to ask out another girl for awhile. Either until my grotesque appearance grows on some random girl or girls actually begin to realize that no one's going to ask them out if they refuse every time and play the game too hard... I accept college football as my "girlfriend."
3 comments:
oh tay, i know the feeling all too well! love is a battlefield my friend!
poo poo face, you have too much time on your hands at work to be blogging.
Oh poor tay, get back in the saddle, no wallowing! There are plenty of girls who would love to go out with Big T!
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